This story
began with Jacob's fleeing from Esau. Jacob had stolen the blessing
of the firstborn that his father had reserved for his elder brother,
Esau. His mother, Rebekah, was worried about his safety that Esau
might eventually cause him harm. Thus, Jacob's father, Isaac, sent
him away to stay with his uncle Laban, his mother's brother.
Isaac gave Jacob this specific instruction:
"Do not marry any of these Canaanite women. Instead, go at once to
Padan Aram, to the house of your grandfather Bethuel, and marry
one of your uncle's daughters. May God
Almighty bless you and give you many children. And may your
descendants become a great assembly of peoples! May God pass on to
you and your descendants the blessings that He had promised to
Abraham. May you own this land where we now are foreigners, for God
had given it to Abraham."
But Laban had
two daughters. Leah was first and Rachel was second. Leah had dull
eyes, but Rachel was beautiful in every way, with a lovely face and
shapely figure.
The ravishing
beauty of Rachel had captured the heart of Jacob. He was deeply in
love with her. He told her father, "I'll work for you seven years if
you'll give me Rachel, your younger daughter, as my wife."
"Agreed!"
Laban replied. "It is better to give her to you than to someone else
outside the family." So Jacob spent the next seven years working to
pay for the bride price of his lovely Rachel. His love for her was
so strong that those seven years seemed to him but a few days.
Finally, the
time arrived for him to marry her. "I have fulfilled my term," Jacob
said to Laban. "Now give me Rachel so that we can be married."
Laban invited
everyone living there to the wedding feast. When it was dark that
night, Laban took Leah to Jacob, and he slept with her. Laban also
gave Leah a maid, Zilpah. The man, who had deceived his brother and
father, was now deceived by his uncle. He knew not who his wife was.
The next
morning, Jacob awoke and realised the mistake. It was Leah! Jacob
went to confront Laban, "Why do you trick me? I have worked seven
years specifically for Rachel. "
"It's not
customary for us to marry off a younger daughter before the elder
one," Laban replied. "Please wait until the bridal week of
celebration is over. I will give you Rachel if you promise to work
for me another seven years."
Jacob had no
choice. He agreed to work for Laban seven more years. A week after
Jacob had married Leah, Laban gave him Rachel. Laban also gave
Rachel a maid, Bilhah. Jacob finally married his love, Rachel.
The two
sisters were married to the same man, but not on the same day. And
Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah. He stayed and worked for Laban
seven additional years.
Because Leah
was unloved, the LORD gave her children, while Rachel remained
childless. Hereby we could see the favour of the LORD upon Leah. She
had inner beauty that Jacob did not take notice and had disregarded.
Her godliness could be seen in the naming of her children. Rachel's
beauty might be just surface-deep. Her distressing relationship with
the LORD could also be seen in the naming of her sons.
Leah became pregnant. The LORD blessed her
with a son. His name was Reuben, for she said, "The
LORD has noticed my misery, and now my husband will love me." How
she longed for her husband's love!
The LORD blessed Leah again. She soon became
pregnant. Her second son was Simeon, for she said,
"The LORD heard that I was unloved and has given me another son."
How prayerful and thankful she was!
The LORD blessed Leah again. She soon became
pregnant and had a third son. She named him Levi,
for she said, "Surely now my husband will show affection for me,
since I have given him three sons!" How she longed for the affection
of her husband!
But Jacob still loved Rachel more than Leah.
The LORD blessed Leah once again. She became pregnant and had a
fourth son. His name was Judah, for she said, "Now
I will praise the LORD!" How she loved the LORD!
Meanwhile
Rachel was fuming in anger. She had no children. This drove her to
jealousy against her sister. She did not turn to God in prayer.
Instead she put the pressure on her husband, "Give me children, or
I'll die!"
Jacob was
furious at her wailing. "Am I God?" he asked her. "He is the Only
One Who is able to give you children!" But Rachel did not heed to
his advice to ask and seek God. She committed the same mistake as
Jacob's grandmother, Sarah. Sarah gave up waiting on the LORD for a
son. She gave her Egyptian maid, Hagar, to Abraham to bear him a
son. Unto them was born Ishmael.
Using this same ancient strategy, Rachel
suggested to Jacob, "Sleep with my maid, Bilhah. She will bear
children for me." Jacob bought the idea. Bilhah became his wife, and
he slept with her. Bilhah became pregnant and had a son. Rachel
named him Dan, for she said, "God has vindicated
me! He has heard my request and given me a son."
Bilhah became pregnant again and bore Jacob a
second son. Rachel named him Naphtali, for she
said, "I have had an intense struggle with my sister, and I am
winning!"
Rachel had this kiasu spirit that was
afraid of losing. She would fight until she won. She did not want to
be a loser. Whatever it took to win, she was willing to buy the
price. She must win. She must be first. And she must be number one.
At this time,
Leah realized that she was not getting pregnant anymore. She
employed the same method as Rachel. She gave her maid, Zilpah, to
Jacob to be his wife. Now Jacob had four wives instead of one, which
his father, Isaac, had originally instructed him to marry.
Ziplah bore Jacob his seventh son. Leah named
him Gad, for she said, "How fortunate I am!" Then
Zilpah had another son. Leah named him Asher, for
she said, "What joy is mine! The other women will consider me happy
indeed!"
Leah was full
of thanksgiving and praise unto her Maker. She was rejoicing in all
the blessings that the LORD had bestowed upon her. She considered
herself blessed among the women.
The LORD remembered Leah and opened her womb
again. He gave her a fifth son. His name was Issachar,
for she said, "God has given me my wages, because I have given my
maid to my husband." Leah conceived again and bore Jacob a sixth
son. She named him Zebulun, for she said, "God has
endowed me with a good endowment; now my husband will dwell with me,
because I have borne him six sons." After this, she bore Jacob a
daughter named Dinah.
Rachel was in a serious plight when she saw
the fruitfulness of Leah. And she turned to God, and the LORD
listened to her prayers. He opened her womb, and she conceived and
bore a son. She said, "God has taken away my shame." She named him
Joseph, for she said, "May the LORD give me yet
another son."
Soon after
Joseph was born to Rachel, Jacob rose and set his sons and his wives
on camels to flee from his father-in-law. And he carried away all
his livestock and all his possessions, which he had gained to go
back to his father, Isaac, in the land of Canaan. But Rachel stole
the household idols that belonged to her father, Laban. She
committed theft and idolatry.
Three days
later Laban found out that Jacob had gone. So he took some of his
relatives along and chased after Jacob. It took him seven days
before catching up with Jacob in the hill country of Gilead. But God
appeared to Laban in a dream that night and warned, "Don't say a
word to Jacob. Don't make a threat or a promise."
Jacob had set
up camp in the hill country of Gilead. Laban and his relatives came
and set up camp in another part of the hill country. Laban went to
Jacob and said, "Look what you've done! You've tricked me and run
off with my daughters like a kidnapper. Why did you sneak away
without telling me? I would have given you a farewell party with
singing and with music on tambourines and harps. You didn't even
give me a chance to kiss my own grandchildren and daughters goodbye.
That was really foolish. I could easily hurt you. But the God your
father worshipped has warned me not to make any threats or promises.
I can understand why you were eager to return to your father, but
why did you have to steal my idols?"
Jacob
answered, "I left secretly because I was afraid that you would not
let me and my family go. About your idols, please search us. Anyone
found guilty of stealing them would be killed! Let your relatives be
witnesses." Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen the household
idols.
Laban searched
the tents of Jacob, Leah and the two servant women. He could not
find the idols. Then he started to search Rachel's tent. She had
hidden the idols in a cushion. She was sitting on it while Laban was
searching for the idols. Rachel said, "Father, please don't be angry
with me for not getting up; I am having my period." Rachel lied to
her father. Laban did not recover his idols.
Rachel died young after giving birth to her
second son, Benjamin. When the time came for Rachel's second baby to
be born, Jacob and his family had left Bethel and were still a long
way from Ephrath. Rachel was having a rough time during the delivery
of the child. The woman who was helping her said, "Don't worry! It's
a boy." Rachel was at the point of death, and just before dying, she
wanted to name him Benoni, which means "Son of my
Sorrow." But Jacob called him Benjamin meaning "Son
at my Right Side" (the place of power). Rachel was truly a woman of
sorrows till her death.
Rachel was
buried beside the road to Ephrath, which was also later called
Bethlehem. Jacob set up a tombstone over her grave, and it is still
there today.
Leah lived
much longer. Before Jacob's death, he gave his sons this
instruction, "I will die soon. And I want you to bury me in
Machpelah Cave. Abraham bought this cave as a burial place from
Ephron the Hittite, and it is near the town of Mamre in Canaan.
Abraham and Sarah are buried there, and so are Isaac and Rebekah. I
buried Leah there too. Both the cave and the land that goes with it
were bought from the Hittites." Jacob remembered Leah on his
deathbed. He was buried with his wife, Leah.
I believe that
as the years went by, Jacob had come to appreciate the goodness and
godliness of Leah. He had begun to love her slowly but surely. She
was loved finally! She was truly a blessed woman. From her third
son, Levi, we have the priesthood. From her fourth son, Judah, we
have King David and Jesus our Messiah! From her fifth son, Issachar,
we could understand the times and seasons of God.
About Rachel,
I know the LORD did not forget her. His only begotten Son was born
in Bethlehem, the city where she was buried. Her son, Joseph, saved
his whole family from famine.
Below is a
table of the wives and sons of Jacob:
Jacob's
|
Wives
|
Sons
|
Leah
|
Rachel
|
Bilhah
|
Zilpah
|
1
|
Reuben
|
-
|
- |
- |
2
|
Simeon
|
- |
- |
- |
3
|
Levi
|
- |
- |
- |
4
|
Judah
|
- |
- |
- |
5
|
- |
- |
Dan
|
- |
6
|
- |
- |
Naphtali
|
- |
7
|
- |
- |
- |
Gad
|
8
|
- |
- |
- |
Asher
|
9
|
Issachar
|
- |
- |
- |
10
|
Zebulun
|
- |
- |
- |
11
|
- |
Joseph
|
- |
- |
12
|
- |
Benjamin
|
- |
- |
In conclusion, I would
like to share this hymn with you:
What a friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
Everything to God in prayer! (Remember Leah)
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer. (Remember Rachel)
Source:
Genesis 28 - 31
Written on:
5 April 2004